The ordinary lightness of Dignity.

Tuesday, April 11, 2006
Personal disposability has become a primary fear. We desire full individuality and yet cannot allow ourselves to be as Nature intended us to be; we become convinced we are not and never will be good enough as is. The siren call of constant re-invention has permeated our culture. If we take this “call” too seriously, we are in danger of losing our identity. Being marginalized by society is not a good feeling. But try losing your sense of self.

The stars did NOT align that Christmas.

The stars did NOT align that Christmas.

I know what it’s like to drop off the radar socially. At first I thought I’d be terribly lonely, but there are actually quite a few of us here in purgatory-with-a-small-p. Ugly, unemployable, aging, fat, ill, care-taking another, crazy…we’re all here. It’s not such a bad place. The Venusians of this world are, of course, quite horrified to be any kind of outcast, bereft of other people’s admiration. The Martians writhe impotently against “the System.” The solar people are deeply ashamed but act “as if” nothing could thwart their dignity. Mercurial folk understand the issues involved, look behind the messages for other messages, and find the situation keeps them in touch with The People (a.k.a. “weirdo’s”). Jupiterian’s see the big picture and just know they are there to inspire others who are also downtrodden. It also is an opportunity for them to be a big fish in a little pond. Saturnians never expected much from anyone else. And lunar types feel society’s rejection of them keenly, taking it out on anyone who will listen to their blog-gy rants.
Oh. Ha ha.
These planetary descriptions come into play when someone has a personal planet in detriment or fall. Read about Essential Dignities and Debilities in Donna OConnor’s article at


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